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writes:I'm not sure if this guy likes me or not, in an attracted way or as a friend . He is an actor ( not a very well known one , but he is the son of a well known English actor ) . I met him once after a show he did which i saw with my friend, and he even let us go for a drink with him afterwards !. I saw him in the show again in another town a few of months later. I went with my brother then. I waited for him after the show, and when he saw me, he opened up his arms and shouted " hello darling ! " , and i went over to him and he gave me a hug. He also introduced me to some of the other cast members. He even remembered my name , as he said , " this is ( my name ) ", to them !. As we were stood talking a bit later on, " he said " i'll not be two seconds " , as he went over to talk to some other people. And when he came back he said " sorry about that, i'm everyone's b**ch tonight ". When he said those things, it made it seem like he was giving us special attention. He also asked what we were doing later on, and he looked at me as he said it. He said that he was going back to his hotel for a while, but he might have ben going out again, but he wasn't sure as he was tired. He also gave his mobile number to my brother for him to put in his phone , as i didnt have a mobile phone with me or a pen and paper. Unfortunately though, somehow, my brother copied the number down wrong , so we didnt end up meeting up with him again later. He has invited me to a gig that he is doing in a couple of months, although , not just me. He has sent the invite to a lot of people on facebook, so i guess he wouldnt mind if i went to it. I have a friend who lives in that area who i could go and stay with. Do you think i should go ?.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Yes, go! But dont get your hopes up too high or cling to him. I mean, its really a win-win because even if he doesnt spend a ton of time with you, you can still hang out and have a good time and meet other people. Focus on becoming friends with him if anything and if he gives you some pretty obvious signs that he is into you, then go for it!
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Hi. Well i sent him a short message recently asking how he was, and he mentioned about when i saw him in the show, so i know he still remembers me, but yeah he might have just been being friendly. He is a musician too and it is a performance with his band. I guess its the same with actors and the fans really. You dont always know if they really like you, or if the fans just like the actors because they are quite well known, and if the actors only act nice towards the fans because it's just for the work and money. Personally, obviously, i do like this actor because of his work, and his dad's work, but i would like to get to know him properly as well.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (28 January 2011):
 Most people in showbiz feign interest in people. They say "hello darling!" an awful lot and may/may not remember your name.
As actors/actressess/musicians/dancers it is the business to make people like you and to "network" as you never know where the next job may come from. It is also good to make as many friends as possible, as again, its good to have friends in high places who can pull strings.
I really wouldnt put too much hope on him actually wanting a relationship with you. He was probably just doing his job - being nice. Remember in showbiz as soon as people dont like you any more, you dont get the work. Especially as an up and coming actor. Even if Daddy is famous, if the child is known for being an arrogant arse who doesnt talk to anyone, (ie horrible to fans like you) they will never get anywhere. Fans = Work = Money = FAME.
You have only met this guy twice. Both in a "work" context. You are essentially in the group labelled "fan". How many of the girls on his facebook are people just like you? I very much doubt you are the only one.
The performance he has invited you to - is it a group piece or is it something like a party he is having? If it is work, the he has probably invited as many people as he knows in order to sell tickets. Its not because he likes you, its because he wants publicity and he wants to get paid. Tickets = Revenue.
Go to this thing he has invited you to, but please dont get your hopes up, or expect him to remember you.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Yes, go. But don't think too much into it. Go thinking you are going for a good time. You may catch up with him. You may not. This is all very light and casual but you seem to be looking out for 'signs'. I don't think there are any for now apart from him being a friendly guy. Leave it at that till you know different.
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