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anonymous
writes: Theres this guy in my class. He's been out with a few girls, but not many. I recently moved to his class and now we spend alot of time together in school. I really like him but the problem is I'm a guy too. I'm openly gay at school, and he definatley knows, but he never talks about it, which is why I like him. He treats me like any other guy, unlike some people at my school. He's always funny, and has never once even joked about being mean too me, and he is so sweet, he makes my heart skip a beat. Anyway, every now and then I'll look at him and he'll look me in the eye, for ages, and you know they kinda sparkle and stuff and he smiles then looks away. I really have tried not to get my hopes up but I'm just wanna know if anything could happen? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): You could always give him a letter. Or ask him. There's really no other way but to ask him somehow. You could also flirt a bit if he came round to your house or something. How close will he let you get etc? This might be a good environment to ask him in too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): Hi it's me, I wrote the question. I think I'm just gonna talk to him. He's always understanding. He doesn't laugh at me or anything. I'd rather just have him know then leave it till it's too late. It's funny, whenever I even think about him I feel so weird. At least he'll know. Wish me luck! xx
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (29 January 2011):
its possible he likes you,its also possible he likes attention to fuel his ego. hmm the only way you will know is if you ask him directly.
that is the risk...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Well, do you guys ever talk about being gay? Because if so, you might be able to see how he feels about it and may be able to sense if he might be or not. One way that Ive seen people open up about their preferences is when the Kinsey scale is mentioned. How to bring that up, who knows. But when its mentioned everyone seems to want to have their opinion on it heard. If he agrees that its true then well, there is your answer. That doesnt necessarily mean he wants to date you, but it could open up more on the topic and who knows? Maybe he is into you too!
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