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I really really like her but so does my friend! Advice needed!

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Question - (28 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

theres this girl i really really like and i have fallen in love with her.

we used to talk a bit but now we speak very regularly. i think that she likes me but i'm not 100% sure.

the problem is that my best friend really really likes her too. he spoke to me about it a few weeks ago and said that he feels that it's more than a crush he has on her. i didn't tell him how i felt about her because i didn't want our friendship to be rocky but now i get the feeling she likes me and that i am falling in love with her and i don't know what to do now. also thi8s girl at college like my friend and i want him to like her as well but the thing is that i'm not sure if he like her or if he thinks she's cute or not.

what should i do?

i am so in love with her that everytime one of my single friends and my best friend talk to her i get really really jealous even though i don't want to.

please please please help me i have no idea what to do

any advice will help

thank you all

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A female reader, hammyj United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2011):

To be honest, I'd go for it if I were you, and if I were your friend, I wouldn't be a cock-blocker. I personally like to see my friends happy and wouldn't stand in the way if I liked a guy my friend liked and he liked her back. But then again, thats the way I am. Your friend might get upset with you, but if she's really worth it then take the risk and hope that he gets over it eventually.

Note: Your friendship could be ruined. But if you were sure she liked you, I'd go for it.

Good luck!

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