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I get a bit limp when sex gets energetic......

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Question - (28 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2011)
A age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am curious about a minor ED problem I seem to be having. When I am having sex, I can stay rock hard indefinitely. But it seems like when I get my heart rate up, like when I'm on top pumping hard, I start to lose my erection. It's like the blood is going to my muscles rather than my penis. Is this normal? I have had checkups with my Doc, blood tests, etc, and everything checks out OK. I am in shape, and exercise regularly. I am a tad bit off form because of the winter and I am a competitive cyclist, but still very healthy.

What I do to combat it is slow down, get my breath back, and then it seems to harden again. But my GF likes it hard, and she likes missionary...so I am usually on top, banging away.

Has anyone else experienced this before?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011):

Yes and its a bit of a bugger cause it definately puts a dampener on things. I'm an endurance athlete myself and the old circulation system reacts strangely sometimes. Anyway - it could be psychological - cause its happened a few times, you think it will happen again and then that when you loose your erection not becuase of lack of blood...my advice is change positions a few times to maintain your erection more and if need be finish with missionary - youre heart rate cant go up that much when your lying on your back can it????

Also talk to your lady - she will want you to be happy and maybe you can work out ways to overcome it - I promise you a couple of times of overcoming what ever you think the stimuli are then this wont be a problem ever again.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 January 2011):

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