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writes:i'm in a panic, because my best friend has moved to another area, and i want to go too.i get on really well with him and this is why i'm in a panic, because a few times i've rowed with him, over silly stuff. And at the time confided in my two closest friends about this. Now they're confused as to why i still like him. i wish i'd never mentioned it to them, but yes i like him more than a friend. But I have accepted i don't want to lose his friendship, but i also don't want my two close friends to hate me. Because i do want to be friends with him too, and want to move to his team. This is such a mess. What shall i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): When you argue and tell others,its usually your side of it only,which has then left the impression to others what is not actually real. Has he asked you to move too? Is it a relationship? If there is no relationship but you want one,dont go on that alone. Sort it out with him first. I cant see why your friends should hate you,maybe tell you its a mistake,but it is no reason to hate you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 January 2011):
What is right for your life? That's the important thing here, not what others think.
Also, why are you so desperate to be with this best friend? I understand you're close, but are you sure you're not too close? Sounds like you like him more than you're admitting, in which case you need to get a move on and tell him.
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