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writes: Four months ago my boyfriend and I broke up after being together for 7 yrs. During this whole time we kept in contact with each other everyday. He has been seeing another woman for about as long as we have been broken up. Finally one day I decided that he as right..we should be split up, and told him that after all these months...after all the drama...after all the fights...after outing him to his girlfriend that he had been sending nude pics of himself to me...and informed her about his numerous attempts to contact me, I felt that I was done. I told him that splitting up was the best thing that we could have ever done. That I wanted to finally be happy again, and start rebuilding my future. He suddenly has had a change of heart....he called me and demanded to know why I felt this way. He told me he still loved me and thught of me daily...about how much he missed the life we once shared. that he was scared....towards the end of relationship...I was suffering from depression and cut myself off from him. Wanting nothing to do with him...and wanted to sleep and be left alone. He is afraid of falling into that horrible place we were once at during the end of our realtionship. He also fessed up that he is still seeing the other woman...and is confused to what he should do. He said he misses our life we once had...loves me...but cares alot about her. He said he wants to talk....should I give him that chance...If so...what should we talk about during our "Heart to Heart" talk...what should I ask him.....Help! I don't know if I should even go there with him anymore!
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (28 January 2011):
 He hasn't suddenly has a change of heart and is the same man he was and always has been. There's a reason you're not married after 7 years together. Be glad to finally be rid of him and do NOT give him another chance to take even more of your precious time. He's seeing someone else whom he has feelings enough for not to want to hurt. Stay out of that and move forward.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (28 January 2011):
 You need to tell the whole story, there's pieces missing. Such as this other woman he was seeing, you told her he had been sending nude photos to you? Why would you continue to dabble in that drama when he's your ex?
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