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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I split up on 5 days ago and were together for 3 months. He was 23 and I am 19.We split up because, since I was a virgin, and after a couple of times of trying to have sex it was so uncomfortable it put me off.He was extremely patient and never ever pressured me.Because of this I felt no need to try again until it reached an extreme and the sexual activity completely died.He said he couldn't stand being next to me and not doing anything, that he found it more fustrating than if he wasn't with me. So we broke up, mutual and on extremely good terms.Since the following day I have completely regreted it. Sex isn't an issue for me anymore because I really do want to sleep with him. I know it was going to be uncomfortable for the first couple of times, but as an ultimatum I don't know why I let it get in the way.I texted him on a few nights ago when I was drunk just saying I missed him, and he said he missed me too. When I apologised the next day he said it was fine but "we should leave it a bit before we next talk". But I feel like the issue that we split up over isn't an issue anymore!I'd have sex with him all day if he wanted!Sex just isn't an issue with me anymore and I want him to know. But he seems to want space so how do I tell him this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): Its not about you! Maybe you are ok without the sex, but is he? Not saying he wants just sex, but he needs sex just like the next man or woman. Was he big? perhaps you should get checked out if it continues to be uncomfortable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): U shouldnt be with a guy that would break up with u 4 not having sex with him.He will only end up using u even if u are ready 4 sex.Dont do it to keep him cause u will end up a friends of benefit especially since hes saying hes not wanting a relationship right now.If i were u i would be regretting loosing my virginity on such a waste as him.He did not treasure ure virginity and dropped u for stupidness.He is not worth it so move on.Find someone whos patient and loving.
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