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Will it all be over too quickly when it comes to having sex?

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Question - (28 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 January 2011)
A male India age 30-35, *eadman writes:

when i masturbate fantasizing i ejaculate within 5-6 min actually , but i prolong it to somehow 15-20 min by stopping at the point of no return...i masturbate watching porn i got quite a fast erection and then it is just 3-4 strokes away the orgasm, this all happen in within span of 5-6 min ...i wanted to ask what will happen when i get along with a real gal i will be releasing it just at the inception of foreplay...? and all will be over , i might not be inside her...

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A male reader, deadman India +, writes (28 January 2011):

deadman is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks again mam'...u r ample source of guidance and wit

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A female reader, Dorothy Dix Australia +, writes (28 January 2011):

Hi there. Masturbating is becoming a habit for you, but it is a lot different to having actual sex with a girl.

Orgasm for a man by masturbation, can take as little as 30 seconds.

In the case of being with a girl, you would be having sex after stimulation of both you and the girl, and sufficient stimulation of a girl could take up to about 20 minutes. So you would have to pace yourself then anyway.

When that time comes, you will both be taking the foreplay slowly, so there probably won't be a problem at all. Just so long as you don't try to rush towards the actual sex.

The most important part is the foreplay, as it's the leadup to the actual act of sex. So if there isn't enough foreplay, then the sex won't be too great.

Just take your time and enjoy the journey - when that time comes.

Slowly but surely wins the race. It isn't a race.

Take care and best wishes.

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