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*otallynotwell
writes:Hey Cupid peeps ^-^Im new here but today is just not going so well for me :( Like actually this whole year is bad. I dont mean to be all doom and gloom but my self confidence aint so great. I mean it was awesome at the end of last year when I met new people and everyone got along :) But then a few mnths passed, I liked this guy and he turned out to be a jerk a real one. He said he liked me, got my hopes high, then totally dropped me. Then he went around telling everyone that I asked him out. On top of that I had a creeper in my class that sent me random mssgs and emails =/ He apparently *tortures* people he likes, since he is doing the same to another girl. But today was ehh. I thought this asian guy was cute, and my friends embarassed me. They said that I liked him to his face and he was just like ok wtf? and when they asked him for his name, he gave a fake name.Im only 14, but things like this really bother me =/It's like this is my rejection year. I know it sounds stupid of me to look at relationships and want a boyfriend. Since i should be focusin on school and stuff. Im fine being by myself and just fascinatin about boys but it sucks the most to get rejected. Then I dont feel so good about myself. I go on fb and look at pretty girls and wonder why cant i be them.
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reader, totallynotwell +, writes (28 January 2011):
totallynotwell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou :) Im too dramatic I guess
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (28 January 2011):
 well here we are in 2011, its not even February yet ad you are putting the kybosh on the whole year ..... dont you think you should give it a few more months before you talk yourself into believe its a rejection year?
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reader, Birdman21 +, writes (28 January 2011):
Everyone, even the prettiest girls and most attractive guys have ruts, so lets just say a rejection year isn't uncommon to start.Your 14, your at an age where maturity level fluctuates heavily among guys and girls. (Your friends are obviously very immature) I know from experience that girls are masters at photoshop, even on facebook. Its sickening how much some of them edit their pictures, even at ages as young as yours. At 14 all I can tell you is talk to guys, and the odds are that if they talk to you back, their interested. Rather than tell your friends the Asian guy is cute, just talk to him. Letting your friends who are less secure and less mature into your affairs can only lead to trouble at the stage your at. Rely on them later when they leave the 10 year old mentality behind. There isn't much going on in the head of a 14-15 year old male so what he says is what he means. Have fun while it lasts, because you really only have a year or two before things start getting out of hand. And you may be a late bloomer, some girls aren't officially declared hot until their junior or senior years. Some girls who are universally acclaimed all throughout middle school just fade out. Your in kind of a transitional period as far as puberty goes, so just relax and find your comfort zone. Things will be fine.
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