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writes:hi, This is my first relationship with a woman. she is 40+ and I was 20+. She is married and I'm single. We worked together in same comapany and I like her bcos she is smart, charming and good looking. That story was started from the day I left the company. she ask me to date her when I got boring. so, I did. I dated her on one day and said I love her.Till that time, I didn't have any idea to have sex with her. But one day she told me about her marriage. Her husband is a gay. I was really suprised and sad about her. So and so, one day we had a sex together. Just once. But now, I felt very bad and couldn't decide what to do. She is sending and calling me everyday. What should I do? Please advise me. Thanks in advanced!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for helping me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks all for your replies!
It had already been a few weeks that we didn't meet each other.
She sms me sometimes. I replied some but not all.
Sometime, I feel lonely.
I don't know what will happen if I contact her again. Should we meet as a friend?
Need your advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,
Thanks for your replies!
Last a few days, I told her that I want to end our relationship. She said that she can accept and let me go. Then she kissed and hugged me. Then apart.
Next morning, she called me and she wanted to see me.
She called/sms me many times. At the end I answered.
Then we met. But I feel really unhappy.
Obviously, she can see that on my face.
End of the day, She said that I can leave her but please don't do it immediately. I told her again that I have to stop loving you. Then she just left and walk away.
Even a small idea from you that can help me a lot.
Appreciate any advices!
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (28 January 2011):
 You need to call her and tell her you will not have an affair with a married woman therefore your relationship is over. Be strong and make sure she understand clearly that you do not want to be with her because cheating on her husband is wrong and you want no part of it.
Never, never get involved with a married woman, regardless of what bad things they say about their husbands. At the end of the day, these 2 people made vows to each other to spend the rest of their lives together, to love each other forever until death. You cannot willingly come between that bond - if the marriage is not working then fine, but they need to leave before they can start another relationship. Imagine if you were her husband - how hurt would you be to find your wife was having sex with someone else? Think of the husband in this situation, regardless of whether she thinks he is gay or not he still married her so he obviously loves her. By having sex with her you are hurting him and getting yourself into a very messy situation.
So just end it now and never get involved with a married woman again.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2011): You love her don't you? Oh and what if the husband isn't gay and finds out about you. Next time don't lie to get sex and don't have sex with married women if you don't want problems. Don't answer your phone, she'll go away eventually.
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