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writes:i like this girl, we have a lot of fun together but she does not want a romantic relationship right now b/c she is still getting over her ex. i want to know if i should push her into a relationship? or just take it slow and just be there for her. dont know how long should i wait?
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reader, Trinaa +, writes (12 February 2011):
 She clearly told you what she wants, so definitly don't push her into it. You need to wait for her and let her know that whenever she is ready, you will be right there. If you push her into anything, she will resent you in the long run.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 No, don't push her at all. If you do she will reject you if not on the spot then in the near future and you will lose your chance. Give her time, I'm talking like months depending how long her and her ex dated. Just be a friend there to comfort her right now and don't focus on the relationship till you can see that she is over him and that an appropriate amount of time has passed.
You should be happy that she isn't just going to jump into another relationship because it shows that relationships actually mean something to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): Dude never force a girl into a relationship you need to wait till she's over him also try to help with that comfort her tell her he was a jerk it'll help you and not backfire as long as you don't come on to strong
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reader, TexasTexas +, writes (12 February 2011):
Don't be the friend that she leans on. No, no, no. Girls do NOT like those guys longterm. A crutch is not sexy."Still getting over her ex" usually means "still hoping we get back togetjher"....If you have made it clear you like her...Distance yourself from her. She will hunt you down when she's ready for a relationship.
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