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My love of breast milk! Is this normal?

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Question - (12 February 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2011)
A male Canada age , anonymous writes:

Hello All,I am a middle age man and since my youth I have been obsessed by human lactation and breast milk. When I was 12 my mom was nursing my little brother and she did for about a year, during that time I was very envious of him since I am the one that would have liked to nurse from her. I knew then it wasn't right of course but I was obsessed by it.

I always perceived breast milk as being more than baby food. When I was about 24 I met a gf that allowed me to nurse from her breasts, she had a 13 month old baby that wasn't yet weaned so she saw no problems for me to take some of her milk, so I would nurse briefly on her while we were together.

Now that I am much older I often tried to repress my desires for breast milk but I find this more and more difficult. Am I normal or should I consult a professional?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011):

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Thank you for your answers,First answer is talking about infantilism,I have no other signs I show that would prove this is infantilism,but yes I have read something to the effect that it has lot to do with a mother/child relationship.You seem to say that although it is not quite normal it is a mild fetish compared to say dumping feeces on someone's face or pissing on someone ( I agree totaly about your last statement)Thank You.

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Second answer (Rose)is telling me to seek help if i do need it otherwise it will continue,I find this answer very sensible and very up to the point.And it is true,it is not a very healthy relationship,a grown man nursing on a an equally grown woman...To be exact we can compare my situation to that of a man,meaning a person that never completely grew up...and of course I should seek help if it is needed...Thank You,Thank You,your answer is clear and should be heeded. Simon , X X X

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Third answer leaves no doubts .This is not normal and I should consult a professional.I think all three answers make a lot of sense to me and I also thank you for your advice.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011):

Do you get turned on by such things? Infantilsm, erotic lacation, Adult Nursing Relationships are rarely talked about as it is rather a taboo subject. Look it up and see if there is much info on the subject. Psychologically - there are probably many reasons why you like suckling on breast milk, am sure someone like Freud would say it's because of the relationship you had with your mother?! Were you breast fed or bottle fed? What was/is your relationship with your mother?...You don't have to answer these questions...as am just speculating. I would wonder though whether this kind of behaviour is 'normal' whatever that is. This seems more 'normal' than say pissing on someone, or for that matter dumping faeces on someone's face (yes some people do have that fetish..)

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A female reader, Rose22 New Zealand +, writes (13 February 2011):

Rose22 agony aunterrrrrrrrrr, im not really sure dude, it seems strange but there are stranger things than that i bet.

um do you think it is weird? do you think you need help? because if you do then go do it now other wise ummmm continue.

i dout though that you will find many women that want to nurse their boyfriend.

mental picture..fully grown man nursing a fully grown women? something differnet about that sure.

get help if you think you need it.

all the best, man/child :)

redrose

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011):

Consult a professional. This is not normal.

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