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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend once told me a couple months ago that several years ago his best guy friend kissed him, and he said that he wasn't gay or curious at all and knew it was wrong but he let him. And I didn't really care, whatever, shit like that happens. We were having an in depth conversation the other day and he told me he didn't tell me the whole truth and that his friend also gave him oral. I didn't pry further or anything. In fact, I wish that was never mentioned. He said that he was so grossed out, and still is. But he's STILL friends with this kid that I think basically sexually assaulted him. Worst part is, this guy is his closest/only guy friend. Is it weird that this bothers me so much? Trust me, my boyfriend isn't gay at all, and I know that. I just feel terrible for him. What should I do?
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reader, phoenix69  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 Your bf told you he isnt gay. You have to trust your bf trust is very important in a relationship. your bf didnt have to tell you he could have kept it a secret from you.How are you and his gay friend have you hung out with him is he a cool guy maybe hes just lonely and he thought your bf could have been the one. Being single is always hard but being gay closeted is alot more harder does he have any gay friends probably not if hes closeted all i can say on a gay point of view is try and forget it and if it bothers you that much try talking to his gay friend...
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