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*ricaLoves
writes:My problem is I want to get even with my ex lover who dumped me for a younger transvestite. It is not that I am all that old, 45 today. He is 50 and his new thing is 25. It is not that I am unattractive or out of shape. I still wear size 8 jeans and treat my body like the temple it is. Sexually I am active too. I was willing to do anything for him. My one flaw if it is one was that I wanted to be more at home, rather than out every night. I mean I worked for what I have. He has investments he lives off, but for me I want to not be taken care of that way. Can you imagine if I did and he left me. Friends have told me that he is out every night and bragging how he left his old queen high and dry. There are not a lot of bars in my area to frequent. So my question is do I go to the bar and let myself be a bar fly (in my teens and twenties I was), or do I take the high road go there and act like he no longer exists. I'd love some input.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 move on- he has and he sounds like a shallow waste of time. it sounds as though you are into making something of your life. someone who is out every night of the week is not living in the real world. the party scene is pretty empty when you look in from the outside.
learn to be happy on your own and someone better will come along x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 If you ask me he is not worth your time or effort. He traded you in for a younger model which in my eyes means he will eventually do that to his new partner. He sounds to me like he is a player and doesnt care about anyone but him self. Do not lower yourself to his standards. Hold your head up high and be thankful you got a lucky escape from him.
You should never try and be someone you are not therefore forget about your ex take time to get over him and then spend your life doing things that you want to do. Forget about him he is not worth it. Hopefully soon you will find someone who is worthy of you. Goodluck sweetie.
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reader, friend for life +, writes (13 February 2011):
 let him go honey,your worth so much more than this,you deserve to be with someone who truly loves you,you risk hurtin yourself even more if you go to places where hes likely to be.dont waste any more time on him,instead of dwelling on this cocentrate on making yourself happy,i wish you all the best and really hope you find happiness.good luck.
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