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Always the friend... never the boyfriend.

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Question - (12 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2011)
A male Serbia age 30-35, *lueagle91 writes:

I am 20 years old, and well almost my whole life i am alone. I have some friends, but they are just talking to me when they need something to be explained, mathematics,...

I tried to find girl but i always failed. They all say i am a good friend, but nothing more. I just cant take that anymore. I talk to girls, but they always see a friend in me. I never had a girlfriend, i know it is possibly shame, but that is my story. You can pack it in few words and send it out.

I rarely ask for help, but i do not know what to do. I am sick of people, as far as i am good with them they are that much bad with me.

Sorry for bad English, i am better in talking than writing English. And thanks in advance for any answers.

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A male reader, blueagle91 Serbia +, writes (12 February 2011):

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Thanks for advice, people. I try to be straight and forward, but then i always blow things up.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (12 February 2011):

The Realist agony auntI think what you need to do is the next person that you meet who you are interested in try to be as straight forward as possible. Flirt from the start and don't take too much time before you let them know that you like them. They may still say no but atleast then you don't waste too much time trying.

Also maybe try to meet someone who isn't in that class so that they aren't coming to you for help. I have that problem with some friends at school in that they only want to talk about the course. It isn't the same but it is similar.

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A male reader, BigMac92 United States +, writes (12 February 2011):

BigMac92 agony auntOkay im going through the same thing, i actual asked a question with the exact same title less then a month ago. The only thing that i can say for advice is keep ur chin up and get some better friends.

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