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writes:i am in my twenties. i find myself wondering about my sexuality. Since high school i have jumped back and forth between the sexual identities of straight, bi, and gay.when i look at porn, i tend to drift towards gay, or group (multiple guys, on one girl), but when i masturbate without porn in front of me i can only think about girls.When im in public i tend to ogle both. iv had sex with one girl, and one guy, i was able to get off with both, but only seem to be able to say anything good about the female experience. I dont know if this ,means i didnt enjoy the guy, or what?Im just not sure if i am actually gay, or straight? am i watching gay porn becuase i get off on breaking a social taboo, or am i watching straight porn to try to convince myself im "normal"
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reader, EricaLoves +, writes (12 February 2011):
 Do not paint yourself into a corner. You have had two sexual relations so far and you enjoyed both. Granted it is easier to clutch on to a label, but what if you choose the wrong one. In my youth I was a gay cross dresser, until I started dating a girl to cover up the gay. We wound up liking each other then I became a bisexual cross dresser. Until I joined the Army when I where I was straight. Out of there back to gay C D. Then straight C D. Then gay. Then straight C D. Then just plain straight.
Now I am a male in a dress who enjoys all life has to offer. So just relax and don't sweat the titles. They don't mean a damned thing outside of business.
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reader, phoenix69  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 Being gay-straight-pink and purple I was alot like you when i was in my 20s well maybe alot younger. It is best to experiment have fun. There are alot of guys out there like you many just keep it to themselves,its easy to stay with the norm but harder if you feel you are different you dont wanna find out many years down the road that you like guys more and your married to a girl eww.lol As for the porn thing its just porn I watch gay and straight porn of course I look for the guy parts when i watch straight porn imagine im the girl but just experiment and know that you are not alone....
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reader, Lisa206 +, writes (12 February 2011):
 I don' think you shouldn't worry about it and have as much joyful PROTECTED sex as possible before you get too old and cranky.Also, porn is not a reflection of what we want in our lives. Its just a way to trip that sexual trigger.For example, I think gay male porn is hot because there are no whorish looking stripper broads in it... who wants to look at that?However, there are lots of cute bodies and I feel out of all porn, the gay guys might actually be enjoying it.So, does that make me a gay man trapped in a woman's body?hardly...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 Ok well I guess at the moment you are just very confused about your sexuality. Try not to think about it to much, the best thing you can do is to do whatever you feel comfortable with. It may be a case that at the moment you are bisexual and later on down the line you may tend to lean more on females or males and it may not be as confusing for you. But for the moment it is best just to not label yourself and experiement a little bit at least that way you may finally get some answers at what it is you prefer. Also just remember if it does turn out that you are gay you are still 'normal'. Goodluck Sweetie.
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