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writes:OKAY, just to let you know... I'm gay. :) I'm really happy with my sexuality, but I really like one of my guy friends. Lucky for me though,he's bisexual. He's only ever had relationships with girls, but he HAS made out with a fair few of guys.Now, let me just explain our friendship a bit. I'm in my final year of high school, turning 17 in November and he's in the grade below me. Normally I don't find people in lower grades attractive because they're younger than me so they're not 'legal', but he is taller than me, pretty mature (while ridiculously immamure at the same time), and he is only 3 months younger than me. I've known him for about a year now, and he's a really awesome (if not a little douchey) guy. He's also really attractive, and he knows it. I met him through my sister (who's in his grade and also sits with at lunch) and she's BEAUTIFUL. Although, she says he's never really flirted with her like he does me. Last year we had classes that were next to each other and he used to come into my classroom and sit next to/annoy me. He's a really big flirt, and we would joke about a lot of stuff. The fact that neither of us were 'legal' was brought up in our jokes. A lot. He'd say something sexual about us, and I'd counter with "can't man, you're not legal" to which he'd bring up that neither was I.Whenever we see each other we each other we hug (we both do that with all our friends though), and he seems to like touching me a lot. Whether that's just him or not. Like, if we're sitting with each other he'll randomly put an arm around me or a hand on my thigh, fix my clothes or hair, or he'll pull me onto his lap. The other day (because seniors at my school get awesome ties :D) he took mine off me, retied it and then put it back on me. He then proceeded to 'fix' it continuously. Every now and then he'd stop fixing and he'd trail the back of his hands down my chest.I think I catch him staring at my legs or what's in between my legs a lot, and people say he looks at my butt a lot too. But I KNOW he stares into my eyes a lot. To be honest, most people do because they're quite 'pretty' as they say. They're a nice blue with random flicks of white through them. My sister has the same eyes as me, but he spends a lot of time staring at MINE and he compliments them a lot (my sister says he has never said anything about hers). He says things like, they're really pretty and he likes to state random features of them all the time.So we flirt a lot, but like I said... He's a BIG flirt. So I don't know if he's just being him... Or whether or not there is something there? .
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): Ask him out on a date. If you both hit it off then you can either wat the 3 months or say screw it. I had my first encounter at a much younger age but that was long before all this was out in the open. My advice is date till then and see where it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): Hi there,Well I actually been in the same situation as you. I'm actually bi myself and my best guy friend knows this. Him and I have known each other for 4 yrs now. And he would do the same things to me but I always just took it as were like that, he just messes around because he knew I liked girls. But he then confesed he did really like me. Even tho I didn't. To my opinion perhaps you should just be direct with him ask him upfront and get your doubts answered maybe you guys are each others straight love, if you can say. Hope I helped. :)
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