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writes:Was with him for 3 years. Split up for 3 weeks and he slept with someone else in our house and bed when we broke up. We're together again but I don't know if I can handle this. Should I stay with him? We also have a son together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): If you believe he is sorry then you should stay with him. What he did was not nice, but it would be wrong to punish yourself, your child and him because of it. You need to sit down with him and calmly and rationally discuss why it is hurting you so much - try doing this in a coffe shop or somewhere public so neither of you goes off the handle - but dont lure him there to do it - tell him why you are going and what your going to talk about. i recently lost someone I love and my biggest regret is that we didnt communicate properly. He didnt actually cheat, although you feel cheated. Buy a new bed and heal the rift. It IS NOT easier to have loved and lost. Fight for it.
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