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He's my friend on facebook, but how do I make him a friend (or more) in real life?

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Question - (12 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2011)
A female Canada age 36-40, *aughtya writes:

So, it's been 6 months since my ex and I broke up after being together for two years. And while I have met and hung out with some guys, none of them have really stood out to me.

Well, I know this sounds ridiculous, but there is a guy who works at the mall in town who I think is just the most attractive guy ever. We had a mutual friend so he popped up on my suggested friends on fb a while ago and I added him. However I've never talked to him because I never knew what to say!

I realize I sound like I'm 15, but I'm actually 22. I've just never had to talk to someone I don't know, or meet someone random or anything.

Lately things will pop up on my news feed from him about how he wishes he were cooking for two, or talking about how he wants to meet someone with his friends...which i ALSO realize is creepy but hey, it's staring me straight in the face lol. Which makes me want to talk to him that much more.

How can I get to know someone that I think is super attractive and interesting? How do I make the first move?

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A female reader, krustyklown United States +, writes (13 February 2011):

krustyklown agony auntI say ask him out on a double date with you, him, the mutual friend, and his/her squeeze! If thats not an option then just be a creeper and "bump" into him at work and go from there, good luck!

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A female reader, friend for life United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2011):

friend for life agony aunthello,id suggest you start of small,just like his statuses,then move on to makin comments underneath,you could even mirror his comments on our own statuses and see if he resonds.good luck

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