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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidMy bf of 1 year started heavily flirting with a girl recently. We already talked about this and he said nothing is serious but i doubt that girl is falling for him. Yesterday again he started flirting with her and i got so pissed off, we had a huge fight.I told him things that i shouldnt have, now he is not picking up the call. I called him 4-5 times, left sorry voice message and everything. Did i blow all my chances with him. I really love him a lot. Please someone advise.
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reader, defeated  +, writes (12 February 2011):
amentothatlisten to the previous answer u did nothing wrong, he did, let him be the one to call u to say he is sorryand the odds r that by time he realizes he was in the wrong it would be too lategood luck
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reader, Ordinary Woman  +, writes (12 February 2011):
Why are you sorry? Of course you were pissed off.He is the one that is flirting. He already knows that it hurts you.Leave him to it for a bit. If he does get back into contact be honest with him, when he flirts it hurts and you don't want it to happen again, leave him to think about what he is losing, if he carries on. If he says that it is not serious then he needs mean it and show you by not flirting.By the same token if you have stepped out of line and said a few things that you wish that you never, you have immediately apologised, stop giving yourself a hard time.To be quite honest are you prepared to go through him doing it again.
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