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writes:This guy is always flirting with my gf. I want to kick his ass but he's her friend. He didnt start flirting with her till they were good friends, and i cant do anything to him without her flipping her shit on me. I love her more than anything in the world. I really want this guy to back the fuck off. How do i get him to back off without wreaking his shit?
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 Talk to your gf about this and let her know that you trust her but it is him that you do not trust. Be as calm and caring as possible and be prepared to accept that you just need to trust your gf on this one and not worry about him because she would never let anything happen. Alot of friends flirt with my gf and I flirt too but we just know the we trust each other and it doesn't matter what the other people are thinking.
If necessary talk to him but again be really nice and tell him that you will be ok with it but you just want to make sure he isn't trying anything on her. It's refectly reasonable and I have done it with people in the past too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): Tell him to back off, not in fronmt of your GF. He wants your GF, and the fact that your with her mkes him jealous and skeeming. But don't let your GF know that your jealous or think of him as a rival. That will make him more attractive, and you less so. Good luck.
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