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writes:So I have been with My Fiance for 3 years now and I dont know anything about his past relationships or the other girls in his past all i know is that he was a bit of a player before his car accident he never likes to talk about that part of his past but im curious ya know. Is he hiding something? i dont know i just think since we have been with eachother this long and we plan to get married i should know right?
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reader, avated +, writes (12 February 2011):
I think you should talk to someone whos close to him that may know more cause it sounds like he aint talking. Try a relative you need to know otherwise youll have doubts about your marriage. since you dont know he could be absusive and even though he hasnt been. who says one day he might not be in the mood and accidently get mad and hit you then what??
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): Hey there!You will risk emotions now if you ask him about his past. Its best to ask about ones past before feelings develop so that way you dont have resentment or this kind of curiousity. I learned that the hard way :/... now, his past lead him to you and if he's shown all signs you are his one and only, there should be good trust there. If he's serious about marriage and that big committment, there is no need to ask any questions regarding his past. Hope this helps. Good luck.
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reader, mselu08 +, writes (12 February 2011):
Take it from someone who knows, you don't want to know! Leave the past in the past. You could be lucky like me and have a fiance that loves to brag about his not so clean track record. It makes me sick. All this will do is create images in your mind that will pop up at inconvenient times, like when you're trying to be intimate. Maybe he was a player and he's not proud of it. It's better to be with a man that isn't proud of his past then with a man who IS proud of his past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): Marry him and discover it at your expense.Statistically, the higher the "magic number" of sexual partners, the higher the changes of divorce. Period.
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