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26-29,
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writes:Okay, so there was this boy who i met in Year 7, when we both started new at the same school. (we were both in the same boarding house btw, so i saw him lots every day)I automatically fell for him, I just loved everything about him, he was funny, cute and SO nice to everyone, especially me, and he liked me back He was quite open about it, and he even told me it to my face "I fancy you" when me and a few of my friends were skyping him + his friends... :PBut some stuff happened with a few annoying friends, who couldn't mind their own business, and he never asked me out. A few months later, he actually went on to ask one of my best friends out, and i was SO jealous, but it ended after abut a month, and nothing happened.Well that was in yr7.In Yr 8, we were just friends (still in the same boarding house) but i had kept on liking him all that time. I didnt know how he felt about me, and i was too scared to ask him or tell him and face rejection, and i was quite content with our flirting in class. He flirted more and more with me as the days went by, and i could tell that something was going on.I told lots of my close friends that i fancied him, and the roomers went round that he liked me back. Then i found out that he was moving schools.It had nothing to do with me, it was with his dad and A-levels and stuff, but i thought that maybe on his last day, something would happen between us, but nothing ever did.I was and still am crazy for him, because now he's gone, and its half way through year 9, i haven't spoken to him once since he left, and i'm still not over him. I never told him how i felt.I'm sorry this is so long, but what should i do?? I think about him every day, and cry a lot because i miss him more than anything. Help!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 How far away does he live from you now? Can you still SKYPE him?
What can you do really? It's not his fault he had to move. And you were a bit too shy to tell him how you feel and probably vice versa. I don't suggest a LDR at your age, it's just too binding for someone as young as you.
The only thing you can do is learn from this, and the next time you like a guy, you TELL him! Or something like this is bound to happen again. Don't keep your feelings to yourself, express them! Preferably through direct words such as "Hey, I like you."
I'm sorry, dear. This rather does suck. But look on the bright side, maybe you two could meet up again by going to the same college??
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