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female
age
26-29,
*llRiledUp010
writes: Hello, I'm a little confused right now! I noticed a boy in my grade 4 years ago, in 6th grade. I usually saw him in the carpool line or from the bus window. I felt attracted to him for a long time, and he ended up in my Language Arts class in 7th grade. I used to be rowdy and talk louder than usual. I also got into kick fights with another girl for fun, just to see if he would look over. He never did. He was then in my 8th grade math class, and symphonic band class. He never talked to me in math during the first semester, but as the year went on, he would sit with us in a group and occasionally pick on me. Then he would laugh about it. Now in my freshman year, we're in the band together again. We're also in marching band. He plays trumpet, and I play flute, so we're not cut off from each other as the percussion is. Recently he started talking to me more. He would eavesdrop on my conversations, and bring up things I said during 7th grade (when I was being loud and goofy.) He caught a boy challenging me to a fight. A boy smaller than me. He told him, "Dude, she could beat you down with her hands tied! She used to have these kick fights with a girl, and whoa! If she could take that girl down, she'll take you." I had no idea he noticed! He picks out details that I never thought he even heard. I also catch him watching me from the band closet, hanging around my friends in the room, and blushing when he sees me. Is it possible that he likes me? After all these years of practically ignoring me?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): it seems to me that he was never ignoring you. If he is able to quote things you said and recall things that you did that just shows he was always payin attention to you. Maybe he just didn't know how to talk to you or maybe he is shy whatever it may be it seems like he is starting to come out his shell so continue talking to him because he likes you
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