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writes:I am not in love with anyone now,but bit hurry to get married, as lust has bit more in me. should i wait untill i find a girl to love and marry or just go for an arranged marriage. would u plz advice me on this? Reply to this Question
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 Let me elaborate. Are you religious? If so, do you believe in celibacy (no sex) before marriage? This why i was wondering if you just want to go with an arranged marriage just so you can have sex. If this isn't the case then forgive me if i offended at all.
I think most people on here would advise you to wait until you find a woman that you are in love with, then marry her. If you are both in love then you will be guarenteed a long and happy life, raising a family. Arranged marriages might not mean that you have a happy life, purely because you don't actually love your wife.
It's your choice though, but i suggest you wait and find a girl who you love, and she loves you back.
Hope i made myself a little clearer :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you dear, you are much right. Yes I also think I have to wait until I find the right person. Thanks for your advice. It is really beneficial.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks dear fi the tree for ur response, but could u elaborate ur statement? so far i got from ur response, u mean i should not marry unless i find someone whom i truely love. is it so or u mean else?
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (12 February 2011):
Are you only wanting to get married so you can have sex?? The problem with arranged marriages is that you might not be attracted to your wife, and that can cause problems. I think most people on here would tell you to wait and find someone that you love, but i may be wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): All I can say is wait until you are truly in love. You will not be happy in a marriage if you do it before then! marriage is a serious step to take and should be something that you don't have to think about if it is the right person. You will be much happier if you wait for that special someone.
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