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anonymous
writes:The girl I went on a few dates with turned out to like me only as a friend. She is now onto the next one and asked if I would go with her tomorrow on a date with this new guy. She is 15 and he is 19... jail bait? I think so. I found out that she wants me to go to make it less awkward or to make her less nervous because she likes him. I am kind of pissed I said I would go because I don't want to see a girl I care about date some other guy, especially when I am in the same room. She is a friend, but honestly, I am tired of meeting some girl and just becoming a friend. I want a girlfriend so bad. I don't know what it is because these girls I liked are amazing, but confuse the hell out of me. This girl who asked me to go especially so, we kissed last weekend, things seemed great, I held her close during a movie, then the next thing I know Monday she asks if I will go on a double date with her. I’m like yeah I’ll go with you. She is like can you bring a girl. I’m thinking f**k you, another girl who wasted my damn time. My question is, what do you think of the situation? Should I let her do things with this guy and just pretend nothing is happening, or should I step in and be a "friend" like she says I am. Do you think a 19 year old dating a 15 year old is alright? When someone says they need you, but then stab you in the back by dating someone else it kind of hurts. I had a car full of cute girls pull up next to me today. They rolled the windows down and were like, “you guys are hot” and wanted my brother and myself to hang out. I’m not saying I’m good looking that’s for others to say but I know I’m not terrible looking. I get compliments by girls for listening to them instead of pushing for sex all the time.What is wrong with me? I only want a girl that I can hold close and be there for and who won't say they love me or kiss me and then say oh I’m also dating this person. My friends seem right all the time and I’m tired of hearing told you so.Every girl I love or really care about screws me over so much and I remain too nice. Last question... should I stay friends with these people? I know it’s really up to me, but if you were me would you?Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): My rule, stay friends with the ones you truly like and enjoyed being with, even after they said, sorry I only like you as a friend. Because, they are keepers, and usually surround themselves with awesome people, like you! By chance you will meet a fantastic girl thru one of them. Good luck.
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