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writes:After falling for two girls, I felt mentally exhausted.I spent 17 months on the first girl and she was my first love, so I didn't really know what love is. Obviously, she chose another guy instead of me which was heartbroken.Later, I spent 3 months on the second girl and she is my best friend who has been helping me. When she was upset because of her current boyfriend was spending like a month to decide to ask her out. I was there to support her even though it was a mental torture for me to listen to her talking about her lover. Even though she has chosen to date that guy instead of me, we still remain in a very good and close friendship. We talk almost everyday. I tried very hard to hide all my "feelings" when I am in front of her and she told me she could sense that.I had even used "cold turkey" to try to forget her but fail due to my love toward her is simply far too strong.Now I feel mentally exhausted and lost. Shall I keep waiting for her or move on. I had tried to move on but it is just something that my mind telling me not to do and it is very difficult too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFirst thank for you advise.
But now She is ignoring me for some reasons. I guess it is because she believes I am seriously heart broken due to a photo of her boyfriend kissing her on Facebook.
I am heartbroken but this is not the first time anyway so I am not too bad. I had tried to talk to her but failed.
Sometimes She stares at me when I am not paying attention to her. I just wants to know what does she wants.
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reader, Noraa +, writes (15 February 2011):
Heya,
Well I'm in the same poistion as the second girl- but I'm not sure if the guy likes me. Anyhoo.
The second girl: tell her how you feel. It's my guess she loves you too- trust me, not many girls would bother talking to a guy about his part loves unless they were really interested. She wants you to trust her, then tell her so badly how much you like her.
I'm not at allsaying I'm correct- this is just my guess. But trust your heart. That's what I'm wishing my guy would do...
Good luck xx
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 You need to move on, find something else to fill your time until you wake up one day and realise you have been thinking less and less of her and more and more about other things.
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