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writes:hey, i'm just wondering how normal it is for me to desperately want to be pregnant. ever since i was young ive always known i wanted to be a mother, there has never been any doubt that i want children. i am currently living with my fiance and we have decided not to have children until we are married, due to family religions. there have been several pregnancy scares which all turned out to be false, but even though i am very scared when i think i'm pregnant, i'm also very disappointed when i find out i'm not. sometimes i feel so empty inside, and i feel that i need a baby. i need to be pregnant and feel a baby in my arms. i have many girlfriends who are pregnant or have just had babys, and i go over and visit all the time, but it only makes it worse. i feel so empty when i come home without that baby. my fiance isn't ready yet, and he even suggested getting an abortion the first time we had a scare, but i feel like i've been ready for so long!! i try to push it off and pretend i dont want one, because logically i know it's not the best time to have one, but it hurts sometimes. is this normal or am i being weird???
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): This normal to want to have a baby. And to feel the way you do when you don't find out that you are. These feeling are very normal. Don't feel like your different everyone feels like this when trying to have a baby. It can take up to a year for some women to get pregnant. If you want see your doctor and make sure all is well. Go from there. Good luck on this venture and keep trying. The 2 weeks before your priode are the most optimal days for making a baby. :)
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reader, Lisa206  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 It is very normal for you to want to have a baby.
That urge is built into you and your body is made for it.
Obviously you are not having protected sex with your BF, which is dangerous in a lot of ways.
Is your body ready to have a baby? Have you had an exam to make sure all the parts are in working order?
All your girlfriends who are having babies will envy you when those cute little cuddlers turn into walking monsters and you can't take a shower because they don't sleep long enough.
Again, it is very normal to want children.
It is your choice whether or not to bring them into this world and please think about it thoroughly before you do.
good luck to you
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reader, AuntLucy  +, writes (12 February 2011):
Hey,
Im the same as you... my fiance isnt ready and when im due i get upset that im not but sort of glad...my desire for one is so great all we can do is wait i guess...guess its not our time yet?
your totally normal, just wait is all i can say maybe sign up for babycentre and satisfy your craving for a baby ...thats what i do
if you want can private email me and talk more xx
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