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How can he tell me he loves me, and then leave me for someone else?

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Question - (12 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2011)
A female Australia age 30-35, *ceaceace writes:

I was 16 he was 19. When we broke up, he found a new girlfriend straight away. People tell me that I'm heaps prettier, and she's really annoying and unsupportive. I was happy because I hoped he would come back to me, but it’s been 2 months since they have been together. I'll be honest, I was always there for him and nice to him, but he would always just make me feel horrible. The last month of our relationship we were fighting every day, so that kind of makes me think he’s not going to want me again. But when we broke up, he begged me to stay.

I’m so confused because he told me he loved me so much, but when he met someone new, straight away, he fell out of love with me and in love with her within a week? Confusing...... Do you think that maybe when this girl doesn’t seem so new he might miss me? I don’t know, I’m still hurting from what he did. Tell me your stories.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (12 February 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntAll I see here is that when you were together, he made you feel horrible. He may miss you, but it sounds like he suddenly was without a girlfriend and desperately did not want to be alone, so he turned to you - but as soon as he found someone who interested him more, he ditched you.

He does not sound like a very good guy, and an especially lousy boyfriend. Feel bad for the new girl. I hope you are not waiting for this guy to come back to you, because it was not a very good relationship and you deserve much better than a man who treated you like dispensable crap. Good luck, sweet!

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