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writes:i need some suggestions/ i really am not happy at all with the person i am with right now, but weve been together for 3 years and we live together. we moved to a new city and hes the only person i know. hes becoming abusive. i mean he doesnt hit me or my kids but he hits the walls and screams at me in my face and i am 9 months pregnant, i was actually due 4 days ago. i really do not want to be with him anymore, but i dont know how to get out of this. Every time i say i dont wanna be with him and stuff we fight, then make up and basically just forget about everything that was said ans whatever else was done. now its getting to the point the cops are being called by neighbors from him screaming and now childrens aid came to my house because they are cocerned about my son. I care more about my kids then I do this asshole. i just dont know what to do. someone please give me some advice1!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Arahbella  +, writes (12 February 2011):
Sounds to me like you both are stressed out with the moved and the baby the way...I have been in your shoes..I ended up leaving him and moving back to my hometown where I had friends and family to help me get back on my feet. I have been happy and more sure that I was not the problem in our relationship for the last 14 months..It was hard but once he stopped breaking our things and starting hitting me I had to move on for my other children. I had enough when is it going to be enough for you?
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reader, Tiff1985 +, writes (12 February 2011):
I feel so bad for you! I cant imagine what you are going through. I dont have much advice because I dont know anything more than what you have mentioned but...I see you i see you live in Canada and i know that where I live there is a place women who are in this kind of situation can go with there childern. it is for battered and abused women and their childern. It is called an Interval house. I have no idea where u are located so im not too sure if you have one of these in your community. They are non judgmental and help you get on your feet again. And it would also get your children away from that asshole. pardon my french. and if that is not a option for you, do you not have any family that can help you???I hope I have been helpful, best of luck to you and your children
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