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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: When ever i use my "toy" all most every time when im done i find blood on it is that normal? The toy isnt that big either its only alittle wider and longer then my index finger. Im still a virgen though but does that mean every time i have sex il bleed to? Thanks. Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (13 February 2011):
Im guessin it must have something to do with the toy you are using. No you will not bleed everytime you have sex so dont worry about that. The problem is down to the toy you are using and how you are doing it. Was it cheap to buy? Because if you dont buy a good dildo well then there may be wee rough edges on it that you cant see or feel or maybe the plastic on it is irritating you causing you to bleed.
Now if you have a proper dildo then the real reason would be that you are slowly ripping your hymen bit by bit, there is nothing wrong with this but you are only taking a little bit at a time and this is why you may still be bleeding put as an advantage when you are ready to have sex it will make it less uncomfortable.
Hope this helps.
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