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writes: i am 13-15 and ive been singled for a year and only had one boyfriend. im not the prettiest girl around but not that ugly either. valentines day is coming up and i need a boyfriend. how do i find the guy right for me. help. thanks Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 February 2011):
If you try to desperately find yourself a guy just for valentine's day, I guarantee you will be more miserable than being alone. It's just one day, it's not important in the grand scheme of things or in the grand scheme of love. You're still very young, you have plenty of time to find someone. Many more valentine's days to experience. Get some friends together, buy some yummy food and watch chick flicks and just have a good time together. Valentine's day is just another day. Plus think of all the money you'll save not having to shell out for a present!
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reader, Esme7655 +, writes (12 February 2011):
Sorry babe, love has it's own schedule, time zone even :) buy yourself something pretty, something yummy!
Hang out with your friends, or relax at home. It's just Monday!
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reader, Rose22 +, writes (12 February 2011):
hey,
valentines day means differnt things to differnt people so some people think it is very important and some dont.
you say you need a boyfriend? the best way to get a boyfriend funny enough is dont send out the image of needing one. when they see you are independant and beautiful (which you will be to your special guy one day)they will come to you, that doesnt mean dont flirt cus you got to get out there but dont act like you need one.
i think the best you can do this valentines day is have a good day, maybe flirt with some guys? send out the image that you are perfectly happy being you and you never know someone might already like you and you might just be givin something tomorrow?
i hopw this has helped you!
redrose
xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): Being single on Valentine's is miserable since it's a couples' day. Why don't you hang out with girl friends instead? You can still eat chocolate and watch romantic movies and it would be more enjoyable with a group of close friends instead of a boy you hardly know. Don't let it get you down, it's just another (over)commercialized holiday.
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