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writes:Okay I hate to obsess about this but it's really bothering me. I know there are tons of questions out there about certain boyfriends not wanting to give head to us girls and I have a similar one. It used to not matter to me, but my ex was obsessed with going down on me and I got to where I really enjoyed it, but we broke up (the only thing good about that relationship was sex) and now I crave head. I feel like my current boyfriend doesn't like to do it though. Our realtionship is great except this one thing. Lately, I've been dropping hints like crazy that I wanted it, so he finally went down on me tonight because he said he wanted to and I even showered and porn star shaved it and everything. It was really great and I told him, but I felt like he didn't enjoy it that much. I asked him and he said that he didn't used to like to do it but that he liked doing it to me. I can't shake the feeling that he was lying though... I don't know what to do, should I just trust his word and keep making him eat me out? It gives me an ugly feeling making him do something sexually if he doesn't enjoy it. Has any guy been in this similar situation where he didn't really like to eat girls out at first but loved a girl enough to do it to her and now he likes it?? Any help is so appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): I love it, and have loved it, and it makes my wife so happy and relaxed afterward that I can't do it often enough for me, but plenty often enough for her.
Honestly, I know guys who have way more experience with numbers of women than I do, who women apparently find attractive, who don't like to do it.
I just don't understand not liking to do it as it makes the woman feel so good if she allows herself to relax.
For the other guys who don't like to do it AND COMPLAIN ABOUT IT...I JUST DON'T GET IT...
(But my wife does...AND SHE GETS IT.)
Hey, I've got three daughters, and if they ever meet a guy who won't do it but wants head himself, I'd say "kick him to the curb".
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): I hate doing it, but I do it because I love my girlfriend and know she loves oral. Now does she know I hate it? No! I would never tell her I do or she would feel bad when I do it and it wouldent be as pleasing. so I fib a little when I say I really enjoy it. So yes he probly doesn't like it, but I PROMISE you that he loves making u feel good and that's why he does it.
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