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writes:Good evening.I've known this person for two years, and they have been TAKEN for three. Since the day I met them, I "fell in love". Usually when this happens, I simply get over it. Alas, not this person. In the months that this person goes back home, I figured it would get better. It gets worse. I think about this person every time that I go to sleep, and everyday when I wake up. However, some days I feel like I'm over them. However, I'm obviously not. I've tired the "associate less" tactic. Has not work. Perhaps it's because I'm with this person five days a week due to classes and other events. It's easy to like someone who's there right? Perhaps I'm telling myself that in hopes that I will get over this person. Unfortunately, it has not work, or I would not be boring you with these details. My question is that, will I get over this? Will it happen when I move away after I have completed my degree? How does one get over this? I mean, it's pretty sad that I've liked this person for two years now, despite this person being taken for three years... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAgreed. One minute I'm over her, the next time I see her, it's like "Oh yeah.... You.... *slap in the face". Which indicates that I will never get over her, until I move far away from her, which seems selfish, or immature in a way. Will I ever get over her, time will tell. Something tells me no, but that thinking may be because of my current thinking.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 I've been in a similar situation in the past. The only thing I've found that helps is time and distance. If you have lots of classes together and such, that makes it worse. My crush was at work. Actually, she still works here, but we're in different offices now. She'll always have a special spot in my heart, but I know we're better as friends than we'd be as a couple.The thing is, with crushes like this, they usually come crashing back if you see the person again. You may be feeling good, but then you see them, and whamo! It starts all over. Getting your feelings out in the open can also help, but it's risky.
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