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female
age
30-35,
*unaSea
writes:I've been dating this guy for around 3 months now, but we only mostly get to see eachother during holiday periods, as we go to different universities. We get along great but he's really confusing me lately. He can be quite hot and cold- one minute he's introducing me to his parents and saying how much he misses me, the next he'll go a few days without contacting me. He's always quite unreliable with contact because that's just how he is with everyone, but it's really getting to me recently. Like just this week he went for a few days without contacting me and when I gave him a taste of his own medicine and didn't respond straight away, he got quite annoyed. I don't really know how to act- sometimes we're very close but at other times, we're not. He's not my boyfriend, so I don't feel like I have the right to question him about this, but it just seems as though things are never quite right.Am I missing something here?Thanks for the help!
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reader, SweetSmoochy  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 Have you come right out and said to him that when he doesn't call it bothers you? That's generally the best approach.
If you've done that and he hasn't responded, or if you are just bored of the situation, maybe you should break things off and look for someone new. Maybe someone you can even see more often? That could be your best option.
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