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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I dated this guy for 8 months. we recently broke up and come to find he had other sex patrners and was still sleeping with his ex the entire time. I dont get why you would get into a relationship if you have no intention on being faithful. His best friend even said to me that he was playing the whole time and had no intentions from the beginning on committing however he did love me. He says he would talk about his love and care for me however still fucked other women. I was at all the family functions and introduced as the"girlfriend" to everyone however he was still living a lie. Ive been told that he has never been faithful to one woman ever, he only kept that one special girl for conveince i guess. So was i basically just some in house pussy for him to lay with whenever he wanted? AND how can you genuinely love someone you cheat on repeatedly? also guys, he had unprotected sex with us all? yuck! Why????
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): He probably does have real feelings for you, but he is not ready to settle down with one girl yet. If he is a handsome guy, then girls will be throwing themselves at him and he will have a lot of opportunities for sex. At his age, I presume in his 20's, he should be out there having as much sex as he can to get it out of his system. Men are genentically predisposed to want to spread their seed into as many women as possible. He probably isn't ready to settle down with one girl and then get rejected sexually every night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): He sounds like your typical kid in the candy store, never turning down free candy and sneaking a few on the sly. This would be the antithesis of love and more about greed, self interest, and insincere emotions. Girls are replaceable to him.
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