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writes:My boyfriend gets angry whenever i become a little possessive about him.I dont like it at all that other girls try and draw his attention and if i tell him about it he gets upset.even in office i dont like him borrowing a shawl from any girl to wrap around himself.I feel he should carry one himself or borrow a jacket from sum boy.I know my boyfriend is very honest and loves me alot but my problem lies in the way he responds to me wen i talk to him about keeping a distance with girls.He shuts me up and says that i love to spoil his mood.What should i understand by this behaviour of his? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dhamodaran +, writes (8 April 2011):
What a great philosaphy,
If a boyfriend have the same posessiveness it means something different that he is cheating her girlfriend or he is not truly loving her.Dont mistake me please.Iam not at all blamming anybody here.I have got the same problem and when we were discussing each other about this, I got short temper and hit her.Next day she started telling that she does not want to continue relation with me.
Iam not at all agree this.Everybody loves her boy/girl friends.But somebody feeds more love.Reaction only the possessive.
Today is 22nd day,She is not at all ready to meet me.If I force she is willing to quit the job and move to hometown.We are together from past three and half year.But she says it is hurted her alot and heart is not agreeing to take me back.
I begged all the way I can but no use.The reason I explain all my story only because I dont want to see you tomorrow in my place.I cant even be for a second without thinking about her.Her couligues also brainwashed her that not to continue.If same thing hapened to you, will you be able to bear the pain.Think and behave with him.
In this picture nobody is wrong.But the care we show makes us to behave like this.But when action starts really feels better to die.Then all will say that he is a mad.Untill unless get pain no one can imagine the value of pain.
I know well that she is too good,Eventhough could not see her close to others.Reaction, today Iam alone.I dont want you to become like me.Please take care of your life.
All the best........,
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 You have issues and are insecure with yourself. That is why you do not want your boyfriend to be around other women. You feel they are better than you.If you continue on your path, then you will have proven that statement right. I think you should continue on your current path, however. One day he will wake up and see what you are, and he will leave.Perhaps then you will change, and perhaps then, he will find a real girlfriend?One can only hope!Sincerely,IHateWomanBeaters
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