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writes:I'll try explain the situation as much as I can within this. I've had an Ex but we broke up before christmas, but we had tried many times to get back together and failed. But now we're more liking and he is a lot more willing to get with me. But I believe it is too late. I started to get feelings for someone else. Although I have still been seeing him. Kissing him and things, Almost trying to force myself to like him. I'm going on Holiday for a week next week and he said straight after he will ask me out and If I don't say yes.. thats it. He has told many people about this most recent attempt of ours. What I am concerned about is.. If I say yes, And just don't like it.. then what? and if I say no, I have the fear that he will tell people about us seeing each other and things. This bothers me because.. I have feelings for another. and thats the main reason stopping me from getting with the other guy because I dislike going out with someone when I like another at the same time. I don't know what would be best for me, To go out with the guy.. Or not. Or ee what happenes with me and the second guy. Or just leave them both for now because its causing me too much bother? What do you suggest I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011): I think you should give yourself some time to sort your feelings out for yourself and not be pressured into making a decision you are not comfortable with. Take the time on the holiday you are going on to do some thinking about YOU want to do. Maybe make a pros and cons list of your ex? I think at the end of the day, you know in your heart what decision you will make - after all, you said yourself that you have been on/off for a while. Good luck and I hope this helps.
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (8 April 2011):
 I agree. You should deffinitly leave your ex alone, you should both move on because if you don't your both going to get into a deeper mess with eachother trus thats not nice and extreemely hard to get rid of them even after years of being split up i say that with experiance! I think you should maybe try to let this other person know you like them and forget aboout your ex. Its really not worth it if it hasnt worked all this time most likley its never going to.Good Luck! :)
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reader, BriBri  +, writes (8 April 2011):
Don't get back with him.If you think it's to late tell him that.Be careful and don't look back.Hope i helped!!:))
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 I suggest you leave your ex alone and don't get back with him, you are not really that into him. My advise is to follow your heart and be with whom makes you happy and that you have feelings for.
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