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writes:Me and my friend are both 17 and we are very close. We spend loads of time together and recently that has been growing. He has told me before that not only am I his best girl friend I am also one of his overall best friends. We started becoming close a couple of months ago and then he told me he had clinical depression. I try and help him through his bad days. It is now the holidays and I went round to his house for the first time yesterday and then again today. Yesterday his mates were there so we were never alone and today his little brother followed us around so again there was no chance for anything to happen.But my question is does he want anything to happen? He has sometimes put his arm around me and often gives me a hug. Sometimes he kisses me on the top of my head. Sometimes we have tiny play fights and things. But he sometimes talks about other girls he finds hot or attractive to me. Also, if he wanted something to happen then surely he would have told his little bro to go away. Everyone at college thinks there is something going on between us and when his mates give him friendly teasing about liking me he doesn't deny it. He sometimes grabs me and pulls me into a cuddle and things.Oh gosh that's enough. Basically I really like him. But I jut don't know if he likes me in that way or wether im just a really good friend that makes him feel better.Please give me your opinions. Btw he has suggested coming to mine in two days time.Xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have not been on dearcupid in a long time but I thought I should follow up that this relasionship that I was talking about then was the start of something amazing. We have been together about 6 months now and completly in love. It's interesting to look back on this when we were getting together. Thanks for your responses.
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reader, mine09  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 friend... we are in the same situation..
i know it is confusing when it comes to the point "like lovers but not really"... you may fall for him because of his special treatment for you,, but you should ask him or talk to him about it.. about how you feel.. we never know ..
maybe he likes you too but just afraid to tell it to you..
or he is just really a friend..
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): hope this helps i was in the same situation when i was 18 the best advice i had was go for it just tell him how you feel try the play fight thing and try and get him close enough to kiss but remember it can put a lot of tension on the friendship you have to choose friends or more and now i waited and now i have lost her grab him NOW why you can
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