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writes:alright i know what ur gonna say do u really want ur ex back. Shes a good girl im just wondering how to show her that im not possessive. She broke up cuz i was supposedly possessive. I realize im gonna be who i am and if she don't like me again fuck it shes not worth it but im gonna be confident because thats what i am. I was just wondering what i should do im not gonna make any moves towards pushing her and let her make all the moves towards dating if that what she want's cuz if i do ill just push her into not talking to me but show her she made a bad mistake leaving me for someone else. i am gonna be the funny, smart, confident guy she fell for. Im just wondering if it will be harder because shes dating someone else. I wrote her an apology letter after 3 months of no contact. When i gave her the hand written letter she smiled ear to ear it was kinda surprising. What would be your suggestions?
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 You were possessive she didn't like it so she left you, and than you say your going to be who you are and if she don't like it than F*ck it, why would she want to come back to an abusive relationship. No one likes to feel trap, that they have no freedom, no one likes to have their every move controlled as if they were a puppet and not a human being with its own mind. I think you should let her live her life and move on and work on yourself so you won't be possessive and controlling.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (8 April 2011):
Credit for wanting to win her back and be the person she fell for, but were all this to happen, how are you going to stop being possessive again?You said "I realize im gonna be who i am and if she don't like me again fuck it shes not worth it." To me, that makes it sound like nothing will change if you were to get back together.She seems to have moved on and with you waiting for her to make the moves, I think you'll be waiting a while. I suggest you move on too.
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