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Is this likely to have got her pregnant?

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Question - (8 April 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *mAnonymousHere writes:

Hi,

I am slightly worried about the condom having slipped off and am wondering if I should be worried. My head tells me no, but I'm not very knowledgeable so I would rather ask.

I finished inside her, but by the time I got it out it had softened and the condom had slipped off. However, I think this happened at the very last moment, as the condom's rubber band was on the outside. Thus, the condom came with all the way out, at which point my penis did somewhat rub against her.

From the above, I don't think any sperm would have gotten farther than maybe 1/4 an inch if at all past her lips. Is this enough to be worried?

How far in does it have to be to risk getting her pregnant?

Thanks

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A male reader, imAnonymousHere United States +, writes (12 April 2011):

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Cindy thank you..yes fingers crossed..

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (11 April 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt First, don't panic. You asked if it could have happened , it could- which does not mean that it MUST have happened.

You are not sure if any semen got deposited into vaginal secretions, and you don't know if that happened close to her ovulation time.

Taking a pregnancy test is a good idea, don't start too early because it would not pick up the pregnancy markers and would not be reliable .

Begin ,say, a week after her missed period ( if she misses it ) and repeat after one more week.

This may freak her out ,yes, if she is not using other contracception that condoms. Condoms are a must anyway to protect both from STDs, but, as you have seen, accidents may happen, so it makes sense that girls would go on the pill or some other contracceptive method before engaging in sex. Maybe , from now on, you'll make sure that your partners are properly protected against unwanted pregnancies before you engage in sex.

Again, not every semen emission results in pregnancy, even

with full penetration. Have her take that test and... let's keep our fingers crossed.

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A male reader, imAnonymousHere United States +, writes (10 April 2011):

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Let me clarify I am ABSOLUTELY NOT in the position to have a child, and this is not my gf (I am single). This CANNOT happen.

I am about to talk to her and suggest a pregnancy test every once a week for 3-4 weeks starting a week from the time we had sex.

This will freak her out, no doubt. Any advice? what else can I do?

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A male reader, imAnonymousHere United States +, writes (10 April 2011):

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What do I do?

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A male reader, imAnonymousHere United States +, writes (10 April 2011):

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Great

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (8 April 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt Not far at all !

Sperms have a quality called negative reotropism- meaning, they swim upstream like salmons.

If they get deposited in the vaginal secretions, at the entrance of the orifice, they swim upwards to reach the destination they are biologically programmed to reach.

It all depends if your gf was in her ovulation phase or not.

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