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I told people I have a boyfriend when I don't

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Question - (8 April 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i made up me having a boyfriend to impress my friends but now they want to meet him what should i do i dont want to tell them because then they wont like me and i hav already said that we broke up but they still want to meet him. Help??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2011):

Ammmm the truth is tell ur friends the truth. but if can't which is bad get a cousin, classmate, niegbour or any guy to pose as ur boyfriend after the show break up official.

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A female reader, iicandyxoxo Canada +, writes (8 April 2011):

iicandyxoxo agony auntI agree with sweetsmoochy, don't make things up. sometiems havin a boyfrieend doesn't make yoou coool. Maybe tell them the truth ?. & poretty soon they will give up. cause you dont want to end up like, ' thee boy who cryed wolf ' . cause when you do have one they won't believe you .

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A female reader, Magic_3 United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

My friend had this same problem, I found out it was all made up but we kept it between the two of us....anyway if you don't want to tell them the truth because of what they might think they're probably not too good of friends....but to keep it a secret to yourself still tell them you want to keep him out of your life and mind for good because of the pain it brings you. Change the topic if it ever comes up. Good luck!!:)

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A female reader, SweetSmoochy United States +, writes (8 April 2011):

SweetSmoochy agony auntWell, first, making things up is always going to get you in this kind of a mess. ESPECIALLY when you do it to impress other people. That's never a good idea.

Never do something like this again, or you'll be caught and you'll look like a fool. For now, you have to kill this little monster of a lie.

You told your friends that you and your boyfriend broke up, right? Next time they ask to meet him, tell them that it was a painful breakup and you really don't want to talk to him. Tell them that they are being very cruel by trying to make you stay in that painful place instead of letting you move on. Then, every time they bring him up just say you don't want to talk about him. Eventually, they should forget about it.

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