My break up....did I deserve this?

A female age 36-40, *ragonflycatcher07 writes:

I was with my boyfriend for almost 2 years in total. I had started dating him after 6 year relationship I ended because I was so young I grew out of it. We fell in love and after a year and a half I cheated.. he started neglecting me sexually he found out and left me for almost a year I was over it I suffered and was happy and enjoying life alone ..there he comes back in my life we were together for almost one year now but his older sister didn't like me and always caused conflicts and since she raised him in a way she thinks she has a motherly authority..well everything was going back to how it was sex wasn't the same he wouldn't initate it if felt different no passion..this made me angry inside..well this past weekend there was a party at the place he rents a room to make this short I didn't stay even though I was invited I decided to go to a party where my cousin was I felt I needed space as that day I spent with him he just judge me about the way I was driving what I was browsing to wear for the party at his place that nite I wanted to be alone...well I took him home before the party I left and stupidly decided to go back a cpl hours later ...I show up and I see him in the living room and he didn't seem excited to see me well I call him over and he completely ignores me..I say to him why are you ignoring me now that there's ppl here as in his sister which don't speak to me because one nite we argued he called her to pick him up at 5 am this is nanother sister and his best friend...his sister gets up and gets in my face and starts yelling at me " I am not people I am his blood" he blocks her and she pulls my hair I pushed my bfn a lil and she was behind him she fell back...he my "boyfriend" kicks me out of his place infront of all the guest......says to leave and that it was over and if i come back hes call the cops its been almost a week and he has not contacted me :/ I felt so heartbroken this is a man who I watched over as he was sick when his family wouldn't see him because they were scared to get sick a man who told me as we were seperated that on his birthday no one even remembered....how could he just kick me out of his life.Im doing my best to move on and its the hardest even though I've been through it before...I just wish and pray to god he regrets the way he treated me and tries contacting me so I can let him know im fine without him only because according to him I will never let go.... it hurts but I haven't contacted him.

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