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writes: We have spent a lot of time getting to know each other.There's a good friendship, we've chatted on the phone, I've written to her.We have learned to trust each other. There was a time when we flirted mindlessly, but then we went through a phase where we talked less, and got to know one another better as friends.It's since then we have learned to appreciate each other has human beings who could be attracted to one another. Not just a foolish short term instant gratification fantasy.She's kind, generous, and caring...we want to meet.Given the distance, I would have to stay somewhere, and she said I could stay with her. It was not my suggestion - it would be wrong for me to have suggest it. As it is, I am happy with it if she is...
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think staying with her makes me nervous too. But it is her idea!
You know what, I won't worry about that aspect. Whatever happens happens and she's still a lovely friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionaha - at the second response ...it wasn't through an online dating site :)
that's the best thing. it was through something we had in common that we both spent time online talking about, we got to know each other because of that originally
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): Yes yes yes! The distance thing may become an obstacle, but for now I say go for it! Life is an adventure.
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