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writes:I share a flat with Four guys one of which is my cousin. So I'm interested in two of them and my cousin has told me they both really like me. Last month me and guy A were alone and it got really intense really quick an we ended up having sex. Just as we had finished guy B comes home. He didn't see us together and we acted like nothing had happened. Anyway we had sex a couple more times an we tried to have a relationship together but he said it was only a bit of fun even though I wanted to make it more serious. So one detail I forgot to metion is guy A and B are brothers. No one knows about me and A so no one knows we are over even though we were never together. B has been wanting to get together so should I get together and most of all should I tell him about me and his brother ?
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (9 April 2011):
Hi there. The guy whose brother you had sex with, could find that information out anyway. His brother might just accidently say something that tells him everything.
It's hard to keep things like that secret for very long.
Just supposing they go out together one night and go to a public bar and have a few drinks together and become a bit drunk. When people are intoxicated, all inhibitions get dropped and the truth might just come out without him even thinking about it.
Once the truth is out, it's too late then.
If this does happen, that might well be the end of any chance you might have had with his brother. For a start, his brother probably won't trust you and so being his girlfriend will be out of the question entirely. He would naturally assume you might get together with his brother yet again! Who could blame him?
There probably is no reason to tell the guy's brother, well not at the moment anyway. Because you are not going out yet.
What makes it difficult, is you could have the same thing happen with the first guy's brother - in exactly the same way you both first got together. It will be history repeating itself.
Just have a serious think about things, before you decide what to do.
Only you can decide by what you think is right. Follow your heart.
Best wishes and take care.
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