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female
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26-29,
*riBri
writes: My friend has being a mean girl lately and i am not liking it. She tells everybody i am a _______ and i am not. She has been starting rumors about me and my other friends to and i want to what's going on because the other day i found a note with her hand writing that said she hated me. But she has been copying me from day one. I don't know if i should confront her or just leave it alone?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, BriBri +, writes (9 April 2011):
BriBri is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help.I think i am going to do what ya'll said cause i have just been ignoring her so Thanks.
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reader, matureflowerx +, writes (9 April 2011):
The people who start rumours are usually just people seeking attention. I would not consider this girl as your friend. Do not confide in her or tell her any of your secrets as she has made it clear as she cannot be trusted. Try and distance yourself from her and make friends with other groups of people. Maybe join some clubs and involve youself in activities you find interesting. Most of all do not stoop to her level and spread rumours about her. Shrug it off everyone else will see her for what she truly is soon enough. Good luck x
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 April 2011):
If she's starting rumors about others too, then this will solve itself soon enough. I recommend just leaving it alone. If someone says something about a rumor, just say something like, "hmpf, consider the source..." Keep being yourself and don't sink to a level that's below you. People see through that stuff quickly.
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