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writes: I am a gay male and I have anal sex with my boyfiend and with anal toys. The problem is that if I go to long with out anal sex like maybe 2 days my butt get real tight and then I have anal sex and after the anal sex my anus bleeds a little bit. Is this normal or not.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (27 April 2011):
myabe you two need to be less rough when having sex/ramming toys up there. if your bleeding then your obviously causing some kind of wound however minor and this is a sign you are damaging yourself.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 April 2011):
Definitely use a lot of lube, it will certainly help. Basically if you think you have enough lube put more on. Make sure to read up on safety, you can do permanent damage to the muscles up there if you're not careful.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (26 April 2011):
It can be normal. I would recommend lube or if you already have some then maybe look for something that will stay longer. Also it may help if you use a butt plug a little before sex so that you can loosen up.
It would be a concern if it persisted when you went to the bathroom.
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reader, cupidus +, writes (25 April 2011):
Normal and get checked out for internal fissures.If the blood is bright red, normal, so don't go all crazy with the love making. Black blood is a sign of more serious issues so watch out there too.Be advised that too many tears and pressure can eventually destroy your sphincter and other tissue. Read up on safety.
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