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writes:My boyfriend is very controlling,and right now he is mad at me because I wouldn't let him come over one night because I was busy and had alot of homework.He kept demanding to come over and I said tomorrow we will hang out. Well then he contacted my best friend on facebook who he doesn't know personally ( he just knows about her cause I have told him about her) and tells her we are over that I am immature , not his type that I ask too many questions and asks my friend to hangout. Well my friend told me about this, but another thing is that at school he will walk right by me but say hey to my other friend who he knows through me ( a different friend from the one on facebook) he will say hey how are you even though I am right there. and just ignore me.So my question is what is his game? he keeps flirting with my best friend knowing that she will tell me , and he keeps writing her messages on facebook, and he said hey to my other friend and ignored me. Why is he doing this?He also told my other friend that He didn't like me anymore and that we were just friends and he knows my friends tell me what he says so is he trying to make me mad or something? he told me you can't control what your friends do cause he always tells me that he is the one in control.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): His game is: Make you jealous. He wants you to feel insecure and come begging for him to be with you. Don't fall into his trap. He says your immature, well if I have ever heard of immaturity its the way he is acting. Ignore him right back. Just forget about him, he is a toxic person you don't need complicating your life. Go find someone else, or better yet just focus on yourself and school. There will be plenty of guys out there. You're still young. And if any of your friends side with him and go along with his bull crap, well then screw them too. Don't fall for his stupid little games they are a waste of time.
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reader, Anonymous711  +, writes (25 April 2011):
By the sounds of it he is jealous. He is trying to wind you up, right in front of you. With your bestfriends so you will no all about it and be annoyed. Just ignore him,hes doing it to spite you because he cares about you but has a bad way of showing it. Dont let him bother you , or just dont show it. soon he will get bored, or confront him and say'you dont have to keep flirting with my friends to get my attention, because that is lame' something that will make him think, and know that you will go off him if he doesnt change. best of luck anonymous711
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011): It's possible he is trying to make you jealous, if you see him talking to all of your friends and they tell you about it then you're bound to get jealous. It's a contorl thing. Like you said he is controlling. If he can make you jealous and annoy you when he had you right where he wants you, you won't want to be in that position again so you'll do whatever he wants. Ignore him and act like you're not bothered by his childish games. Hope this helped, good luck.
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