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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex texted me out of the blue about 3 days ago. He said hey what are you doing i just wanted to see how you were doing and then i didnt text back and an hour later he said i love you. and then i didnt text back to that. 3 days later he texted me again and said i heard you were talking about me and my girlfriend. And why dont you tell me what you said. And i was like huh? Cause i havent talked about them and i dont know where he heard that from. So he called and I answered and he was being a real jerk and i said why did you text me the other day saying you just wanted to see how i was doing and now your acting like this? And he said..just because i texted you doesnt mean i want to talk to you, and the only reason im talking to you now is to to find out what you said about my girlfiend.Dont get me wrong but it seems like this is total opposite of the other day? Could he be flipping the switch because i didnt say i love you back to him? He went on to harass me in text messages after we got off the phone saying how much he had this amazing girl now and how he never loved or cared about me and how i need to move on and how he doesnt want me and never will and how much his relationship with her doesnt compare to anything we ever had and that he treats her so much better than he ever treated me and will fight twice as hard for her and that the only reason he is texting me is because i said things about her and he wont allow that. But i didnt talk to about her? And i have moved on. Its so weird to be that he is using that i supposedly talked about her as a reason to text me and brag about there so called great relationship? The whole time he was just putting me down constantly saying im lonely and cant get over us. But the only thing i have done is moved on? Its like he wishes i still wanted him but i dont? Why would anything effect him if he was so over me and him and had something sooo much better like he says he does? Thanks for the help!
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Eh, i guess one question is who ended the relationship? You or him?I would just ignore him. To respond to his texts. Don't answer his calls. Tell him you're trying to move on, and you suggest he does the same, and let that be the end of it.I would say he IS pretty upset that you don't seem to be pining for him, and that he's trying to get your attention.Once he gets it, he seems to be trying to make you feel jealous or hurt you.Don't give him your attention. Ignore him. Block him. Move on.
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