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writes:Hi I am having a time with my special needs daughter she is 18 and my boyfriend of 5 1/2 months first of all they both like one another and he does a lot for her and I now he is demanding a very very clean person and set in his ways, my daughter is stubborn can be heart headed at times now like this morning yes I knew it was wrong to give her soda go in the living room we have other rugs on the carpet light ones.Well he had to speak on it and I got upset his twin sister was here I went in my bedroom where he was shut the door and told him think why you have to act like that that he could take him and the rug somewhere later he told me don't speak like that in front of his twin sister he left went to his daughter my daughter has her off days which can send me crazy living with him is not easy and she is now due to seizures which just started last month now home schooled for the rest of the school year I am working on her getting into a program to give me a break.I find myself getting mad at him if I am mad at her and then sometimes I am mad at him get mad at her I love them both and I need to know how to deal with this I got enough stress and my daughter hopefully can go back to school in the fall
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi thanks for your answer yes I do think I need a boyfriend but I need to probably say with Paul is this what I wont I had him move out once moved back in his twin sister was visiting that morning that is how she came in the picture. Things are stressful right now for me slowly getting better but there are those stressful moments.My daughter has like maybe 2 more years in school by her being handicapped her one on one aide is so nice and good to the both of us we love her to death and she wont's to walk her down the aisle so we will see if 2113 will be the year thanks again.
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (26 April 2011):
Are you certain you need a boyfriend in the picture until you get your problems with your daughter settled? Sounds pretty chaotic for all concerned. And I do not know where his twin sister comes into the picture. But, you owe your daughter a chance to get through school and hopefully on her own. Then, that is the time to get a boyfriend.
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